Today I smiled, quite big actually, at the fact that God has been looking out for me since I was a child. I didn’t notice any of it until today, but today is better late than never. When I was young I dreamt of so many things that I wanted to accomplish when I would … More Manifestation at Its Finest
Sitting in church yesterday, the preacher’s sermon talks about waiting. How as people, most of us are not good at waiting. Whether it is waiting on God, waiting in traffic, or waiting for your turn in the chaotic grocery store line. Whatever it may be, most people don’t enjoy the wait. As the preacher is … More Appreciate the Wait
I constantly used to think about what stage of life my ex would be at in the future. Would him and his new girlfriend be married with children in a year? Would they live together like we planned to? It used to eat at me and make me exhaustingly depressed at where he could be … More Where Will YOU Be in the Future?
I used to ask my married friends all the time, “How do you know he/she is the one?” Every single one of them would respond back, “When you know, you know.” What kind of sorcery is that? That’s not a real answer. Well it wasn’t the answer I wanted. It didn’t help me out at … More When You Know, You Know
Since my six month check in, a lot has changed. When I wrote my six month check in on March 25th I thought I had figured out this whole dating myself challenge, but God has a way of making life exciting and giving you blessings you have given up on. Little did I know that … More A Lot Can Happen in Six Months
It’s been awhile since I have spoken to all of you, to say the least. I’ve been thrown some unexpected curveballs, but all blessings. Actually now that I think about it, I have had a significant amount of blessings enter my life the last few months since I have last wrote. As mentioned in my … More 11 Month Check-in
For the last few months I was angry with my ex and how he handled the breakup, along with what he did to me within our relationship. I caught myself hating his actions, how he loved me, what he thought love was. I found myself replaying the last two years of our relationship and rethinking … More Mind Over Matter
Last Wednesday was supposed to be another normal day. I would drop the dogs off at my ex’s at the time I knew he goes to the gym. I just wanted to drop them off and head home to spend time with my mom. I never expect him to be there because I tend to … More What Do You Do When You Get Something You Didn’t Ask For?
I highly recommend writing down your thoughts. Whether that is in a journal or just random sticky notes, having a place where your thoughts are written down in one place is so much more helpful than I originally thought. Writing down your thoughts help you understand them and help you not think about what is … More I’ve Prayed For What I Have Now
I don’t have a title for this post because I honestly never thought I would post something like this, but lets get into it. Most of you know since coming to my blog that I have been on this self-love journey of dating myself. Some people start off by loving their selves before they love … More