The biggest lesson I learned as I overcame my toxic relationship was to know what I deserve. There were so many times I bent over backwards for the one I loved that I ignored that the same energy, time, and effort wasn’t being reciprocated. I thought it was my fault he couldn’t give me the … More My Biggest Lesson Learned
I was just at my cousin’s house last weekend. I tend to visit her as much as I can when the time presents itself. She lives quite a ways away from me, so it’s something I try to do at least once a year. I woke up in her guest room last weekend and laid … More A Blast From the Past
I have always wanted a significant other to travel with me. To explore the world and everything this green Earth has to offer. I have this list that I add to every year. It’s my 3-5 year traveling plan on all the places I want to visit. When I visit a place on the list, … More What’s It Like Traveling With Your Significant Other?
I used to ask my married friends all the time, “How do you know he/she is the one?” Every single one of them would respond back, “When you know, you know.” What kind of sorcery is that? That’s not a real answer. Well it wasn’t the answer I wanted. It didn’t help me out at … More When You Know, You Know
Since my six month check in, a lot has changed. When I wrote my six month check in on March 25th I thought I had figured out this whole dating myself challenge, but God has a way of making life exciting and giving you blessings you have given up on. Little did I know that … More A Lot Can Happen in Six Months
Yoooo! How is everyone doing today? Six months today since I have decided to date myself. Where am I? How do I feel? What is in store for me the next six months and the months afterwards? I’m going to get into all of those details right now. It has been a roller coaster of … More Six Month Check-In
Last Wednesday was supposed to be another normal day. I would drop the dogs off at my ex’s at the time I knew he goes to the gym. I just wanted to drop them off and head home to spend time with my mom. I never expect him to be there because I tend to … More What Do You Do When You Get Something You Didn’t Ask For?
Wedding season is upon us and I love weddings. Nothing is more fun then dressing up and celebrating your loved ones getting married. I love all the small details brides and grooms take part on in making their day beautiful. When one of my most treasured friends from elementary school who I had the privilege … More It’s Wedding Season